Is it worth to be in a relationship? Is it worth to fall for someone who doesn’t give a fuck about you? Is it worth to act miserable when you know you can be a better person when you are with yourself? Is it worth to write a poem about how you got rejected? Is it worth to dress nicely (like a metro-sexual guy which you are not) and comb your hair when you have dirtiest curly hair to impress some lame dumb chick? Is it worth to encourage people to fall in love when you know their life is going to fall apart in few months or rather few weeks? Is it worth to abuse your Ex when your see him/her with someone in public when you are sleeping with every possible moving thing? Is it worth to fight with your companion who has zero IQ and can’t comprehend a single logical argument? Is it worth to mend broken relationships just to make sure you end up being a nice guy? Is it worth to fight for a cause when that cause is Love? Is it worth proposing someone when you know she loves someone else? Is it worth to entertain your mind by imagining/ assuming things which are never going to happen? Is it worth shedding those petty tears for someone who thinks above things are not worth doing?
You need to choose what is right, what is practical, what is logical, what is rational! Find a rational for your actions; prioritize your life, strategize in a way that you don’t end up getting hurt by someone who doesn’t understand your worth. In better words, be independent. Every person can stand by himself, for himself. Care for people, like them but don’t get so gullible and miserable that emotions will suck you down to your grave. Be proud of what you are. Change yourself for yourself. Not for some pretty bimbo who thinks you are worthless and should change to suit her taste. Be sensible. Every step you take towards a relationship, you think it gives you a hope for a better life but it kills your rational thinking. Use your brains to analyze situations; don’t use it as a device to project your irrational fantasies.
Believe it or not but somewhere inside, you know you could have been a better man.
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ReplyDeleteAren't you asking a lot of questions in the first post itself? Questions which will take eons to answer?
To quote Swanand Kirkire
"Jindagi Sawaalon Ke Jawaab Dhudnein Chali
Jawaab Mein Sawaalon Ki Ik Lambi Si Ladi Mili
Sawaal Hi Sawaal Hain Sujhti Nahi Gali
Ke Aaj Haath Thaamlo Ik Haath Ki Kami Khali"
Keep questioning...keep posting!
Is it worth reading this article? I see an i-banker in you trying to calculate worth in this article. It was fun reading this article. And we all understand why you write this. By the way how many times did you get a call (from you know who) while you wrote this?
ReplyDeleteWorld would have done well enough even without this...anyways best of luck with being a better man!
ReplyDeletethe irony is that u hate love so much and ur 1st blog is on love :).... i think its just the way u look at it ....most of the people who crib about bad relations are the ones who loved being in one at some point..isnt it???..no1 forces someone 2 fall in love it just happens...and like a lot of other things in life could fail ..love can too ..so why make it a villan ...its just and innocent feeling ...one can crib about the persoon they loved , only if they truely never did ...its left upto us to decide whether we want 2 remember the good things and simle for life ...or crib , abuse and cry over split milk..thats completely ones choice :) ....btw well written dinesh ...waiting for the answers to these questions ...keep blogging ..:)
ReplyDeleteForget thinking....Just keep walking....Johny Walker is waiting for you!!
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